I just can't believe he's gone. We understood each other in a way I feel few people do, we didn't talk to each other as regularly as most people because most of the time we didn't need words to express thoughts or feelings we knew each other had, and when we did talk? It was always incredibly meaningful, he was so real, willing to talk about deep subjects and not sugercoat while also being compasionate yet grounded in how he talked about them. I don't know if he ever realized it, but some of the conversations we had really illuminated dark spots in my world view and helped me understand myself better. I will always remember and value the lessons and truths learned from our talks, it is the most important piece of him I can carry into the future.

Though our hearts fill with sorrow and our eyes with tears, it remains our duty as the living to remember, to let his memory serve as an example to us all. We miss you Doug.

I remember sitting around a table with Doug, all laughing and sharing stories of our every day lives. It was a pride of mine to help him in any way I could, even at one point calling me a "raking demon". I looked up to him a lot, as he served to be great inspiration of a great person I should strive to be. I'll miss our solace moments of sharing quiet stories in the late hours of the evening. Much like his best friend Chance, he was compassionate and ever living to those he held close. I'll forever hold you in my prayers not just as a friend, but as the closest of family as well.

I had the pleasure of going to school with Doug @ Ben Davis High School. Always , always played in the bands from Jr high to high school and beyond .. Doug thank you for the memories! Keep the band warmed up, you have a celebration headed your way! A celebration of Giants, will meet you on the flip side someday!! Rest Easy ❤️

Dear dad ,

How could I ever find the words to express how grateful I was to have you as my father in this life . You were kind , understanding, loving & you never cared what I did as long as it made me happy . You truly loved me for who I am and that’s the biggest accomplishment as a parent in my opinion. You were my dad but you sometimes you were also my best friend . I could confide in you , cry , complain , boast .. you didn’t care . You always had a smile on your face when you saw me. Your hugs were so sweet and warming it reminded me of when I was a kid .

To think at just 31 years old I lost my twin . The one guy who truly cared about me is just heart breaking to admit . I won’t see the life the same but I understood it was your time . I hope that one day we will meet again . You keep grandma , uncle Mike , and my cat binx company for me . I’ll see you again in the next life .

My heart will never quite be the same . You truly took most of it . RIP dad . You will never be forgotten.

God Speed, Doug. Bless your family and friends.

I’ve been holding you both in my heart since I heard about Doug’s passing. Loss has a way of stirring up so many layers—grief, reflection, and gratitude all at once.

Doug and I shared a chapter that shaped me in ways I’ll never forget. Through all its turns, the greatest gift we gave each other was our daughter. She is a living reflection of love, resilience, and grace—and for that, I will forever be grateful.

I know this moment carries its own weight for each of you. Please know I’m here, quietly beside you, honoring Doug’s memory and the bond that remains. May you find comfort in the stories, the laughter, and the love that endures beyond time.

With love and sympathy,

Paula

From The Stall Family.

We are deeply sorry for your loss.

Please know that our thoughts and hearts are with you during this difficult time Dee Dee.

May you find comfort in the love and support that surrounds you, and may cherished memories bring you peace.